Archive for June, 2005

Why I am a Conservative

June 30, 2005

I believe:

The Second Amendment to the United States Constitution protects the right of every law-abiding American citizen to own firearms. It is our right to protect our lives and our property from those who wish to take either from us, and we cannot be truly safe if we have to rely completely on the authorities. It is likely too late to call the police if the intruder has already made his way into a house. Those that oppose the right to defend one’s life and property often argue that with fewer firearms, the crime rate would inevitably drop. If we look elsewhere in the world, like England, we see that this is most certainly not the case. In England, handguns have been banned for some years now, but crime has in fact risen, notably in crimes involving burglary. English criminals know that law-abiding citizens have neither the means nor the legal right to defend themselves from ruthless monsters looking to pillage and harm them. Criminals in the United States, however, have said that they fear armed homeowners more than they fear the police.

The Federal government’s first priority is to protect its citizens and its interests worldwide. The United States should strive to be the most powerfully advanced military in the world, and as the world’s only superpower, the United States should be proactive in defending and promoting our freedoms throughout the world. The recent war with Iraq fit these purposes. Regardless of whether or not weapons of mass destruction are found in Iraq, the war and subsequent occupation are completely justified. For years, Saddam Hussein has played United Nations like a fiddle without consequence. If Iraq had no weapons of mass destruction, why were the inspectors not allowed to verify this? It would have been the logical step to take to show the world that the Western powers were wrong. The burden of proof has always been on Saddam Hussein, and the world had to be shown that the United States and its true allies would not and will not put up with despotic tyrants with ambitions of war and terror. Twenty-two million people are now free from the murderous clutches of Saddam Hussein. This alone justifies the war.

Fiscal responsibility is key, and taxes should be kept as low as possible. Government spending should be watched carefully so that enormous amounts of money are not wasted on entitlement programs and handouts that benefit no one. Welfare, for example, should serve only as a springboard, not a crutch. The government should stay out of economic affairs as much as possible, serving only to ensure the safety of the consumer, and privatization should take precedence over socialization. “From each according to his ability, to each according to his need” is a doctrine greatly opposed by conservatives, as we believe in working hard and benefiting from that hard work. Socialist policies are detrimental because, as we all know, the government is very inept at handling enormous institutions such as healthcare. People can spend their own money better than the government can.

As a Christian, I believe abortion is absolutely wrong in any case. Personal responsibility is of the utmost importance, and one should not be having sex if he or she is not prepared to raise a child. Most abortions done today happen because of “inconvenience.” The destruction of a life due to “inconvenience” is not acceptable. Opponents of this view often bring up rape as an excuse for abortion, but studies show that less than one percent of abortions are done because the rapist impregnated the woman. This is not reason enough to allow so many more innocent lives to be slaughtered all due to irresponsibility.

It is also important that we acknowledge Judeo-Christian philosophy as the foundation for this nation’s laws, principles, and values. This is not a call for state-sponsored religion, but historical fact cannot be denied. Secularists would like to destroy religion in this country and any references to God in our history and government. In this country we have freedom of religion, but not freedom from religion. Many people in this country believe that religion is a great thing unless you’re talking about Christianity or Judaism, which are often depicted as the worst groups in the history of the world. The Creator is mentioned in the Constitution, God is mentioned on our currency and in our Pledge of Allegiance. These reflect the philosophy of the Founding Fathers and the basic foundations of this country.

The right to defend one’s self, family, and property, powerful national defense, and morality are just a few of the ideals that I hold in common with my fellow Conservatives. Naturally I will not always agree with all of them and not all of them will agree with me, but most of the time we are on the same page. All of us understand that a Leftist America is not in the best interests of any of us, as liberals wish to destroy our history and force secularism on the entire populace. They wish to paint conservatives as racists and fascists all the while it is they who believe the government knows how to run our lives better than we do. Conservative policies are based on logic, not the theoretical fantasies of an impossible utopia that liberals subscribe to.

And with that, I’ll come off my soapbox and pay the 4% increase in my income taxes, since with my new job, I went up a tax bracket. Thanks a lot, Mr. Clinton. :roll:

Tail Lights Fixed!

June 28, 2005

Yes, siree. Brandon fixed my tail lamps. Now to deal with the windshield wipers…

Hello, Metroplex!

June 28, 2005

So I lived through my first week at work, and I’m on my second day of my second week. Now that I’m really starting to retain what I’m being taught, and I’m getting organized with my notes and such, I’m feeling a lot better. I’m really liking it here… A LOT. It’s so much better than sitting there, answering phones, and trying hard to not fall asleep at that front desk at home office. Looking back, I really sucked as a receptionist anyway.

I tried to make brownies for my office on Sunday night, but they didn’t turn out so well, so I decided to toss them. Better that than me eating them on my own!

I spent my first full weekend in the Metroplex, and it was great. It was the first weekend in several months where I felt like I’d really had an entire weekend. I didn’t visit any churches. I just needed to be still for a few days. I relaxed and hung out with Brandon. We played Monopoly, and the score rests at 1-1. We watched a couple of mid-nineties movies (So I Married an Axe Murderer & Reality Bites), as well as National Treasure. All were pretty entertaining.

I’m looking forward to receiving two cool deliveries today: my tail lamp for my car (oh, to drive legally again!) and an order from Bed, Bath & Beyond, courtesy of the Transportation department back at Home Office. They were so sweet, and sent me a $40 gift card my first day here. It really made my day. I bought a little table and a chair for my apartment—two of the things I was desperately needing. I still have about $3 on the card, so maybe I’ll buy a candle or something this weekend.

I’m sort of struggling with the whole church-search thing before it even really starts. I don’t want to settle for some place because it will make the most people in my life happy. I don’t want to settle for some place because it’s comfortable for me. I want to be where God wants me, and although I know ultimately that will happen, I’m still stressed about it. Sick-cycle carousel this is.

Speaking of the Sick-Cycle Carousel, Lifehouse is playing at the Gypsy Tea Room next Tuesday. (!!!) Depending on the money situation this paycheck, I just might go! YAY for the Dallas live music scene!

Breakfast for Dinner

June 25, 2005

Mmmm… that’s what we’re having tonight! Pancakes, eggs, and bacon! Yummy for my tummy!

Why Do Women Need Romance More Than Men?

June 24, 2005

I don’t usually care for Dr. Dobson, but I found this article interesting…

Why Do Women Need Romance More Than Men?
By James C. Dobson, Ph.D.

Q: I have often wondered why women seem to need romantic involvement so much more than men. Why do you think emotional coolness is a greater problem for wives than for their husbands?

A: An unknown portion of this romantic need in women is probably related to genetic influences implemented by the hypothalamus region in the brain. Beyond this, the characteristic features probably result from differences in early experiences of girls and boys. The entire orientation for little girls in our society is toward romantic excitement. It begins during the preschool years with childhood fantasies, such as Cinderella dazzling the crowd (and particularly the Prince) with her irresistible charm, or Sleeping Beauty, being tenderly kissed back to consciousness by the handsome young man of her dreams. While little boys are identifying with football superstars and gun-toting cowboys, their sisters are playing “Barbie Dolls” and other role-oriented games that focus on dating and heterosexual relationships. Later, the typical high school girl will spend much more time daydreaming about marriage than will her masculine counterpart. He will think about sex, to be sure, but she will be glassy-eyed over love. She will buy and read the romantic pulp magazines … not he! Thus, males and females come to marriage with a lifelong difference in outlook and expectation.

Why, then, are men so uninformed of this common aspect of feminine nature? They haven’t been told. For centuries, women have been admonished to meet their husbands’ sexual needs–or else. Every female alive knows that the masculine appetite for sex demands gratification, one way or the other. But a woman’s need for emotional fulfillment is just as pressing and urgent as the physiological requirement for sexual release in the male. Both can be stymied, but at an enormous cost! And as such, it is as unfortunate for a man to ignore his wife’s need for romantic love as it is for her to foreclose on his sexual appetite.

For the benefit of my masculine readers, let me restate my message more directly: Your wife is probably more vulnerable to your warmth and kindness than you have realized heretofore. Nothing builds her esteem more effectively than for you to let her (and others) know that you respect and value her as a person. And nothing destroys her self-confidence more quickly than your ridicule or rejection. If you doubt this fact, I urge you to conduct a simple experiment. At the breakfast table tomorrow morning, spontaneously tell your children how fortunate they are to have the mother whom God has given them. Without speaking directly to her, tell them how hard she works to keep them clean and well fed, and then mention how much you appreciate and love her.

Just drop these words casually into the middle of your conversation while she is scrambling the eggs. Her reaction will give you valuable insight into her emotional state. If she goes into shock and burns the eggs, then it has definitely been too long since you gave her an unsolicited compliment. If she flashes a mischievous smile and suggests that you miss the 8:05 train this once, you’ll then know how to cure the headaches she’s been having at bedtime each evening. But if she fails to notice your comments, you must recognize that she is in critical condition and can only be resuscitated by taking her on a weekend trip to a nearby resort, at which time you will have flowers, candy and a love letter waiting in the selected motel.

Smile as confetti comes raining down on you…

June 24, 2005

The San Antonio Spurs are three-time WORLD CHAMPIONS! They beat the Detroit Pistons in 7 by a score of 81-74. I love my Spurs!

Tony Parker grabs Manu Ginobili for a hug before the game

The Spurs are introduced before Game 7

Rowdy Spurs Fans

Timmy takes a shot

Manu grabs a loose ball

Tony goes up for the shot

Timmy slam dunks

Manu is elated

...smile as confetti comes raining down on you...

Timmy and his two trophies

Spurs fans reacting to the news

Early edition of the San Antonio Express News

Trophy love

Team shot

Tim and expecting Amy share a moment

Big Time Bob takes some media questions

Tim & trophy getting showered with champagne

More of Tim and his two trophies

Bruce and Manu celebrate

Sob

June 22, 2005

i miss katie today. :(

Lunch Time Ramblings

June 21, 2005

I’m moved in and mostly have everything put away. I started work bright early Monday morning, and so far, I’m feeling really good. The people here are incredible, and although there’s a lot to learn and I’m feeling a little overwhelmed, I’m confident.

Brandon and I had dinner last night and then went to get banana splits from Sonic, and I think that’s when it really hit both of us that HEY! It’s a Monday night and I’m STILL in Dallas! It was a good feeling. I’ve spent two nights in my new apartment that I just love. I’m sure the neighbors think I’m totally weird– I have a Spurs pendant on the outside of my door. I’m just waiting for someone to vandalize it… HEH!

I visited with the apartment folks at school today, and all seems to be well in that arena. There haven’t been any surprises or mishaps thus far, so I’m pleasantly surprised (given my track record). I just have to turn in my apartment inspection form describing the condition of the apartment before I moved in to receive my mail key, and I have to pay my June pro-rated rent since the University mistakenly returned what I’d paid already.

I registered for fall courses this morning. All of my classes will be online via the UT Telecampus this semester, and in the Spring, I anticipate being enrolled at UT Arlington officially. I’m taking my very last Spanish course thru UTSA; Intro to Biology for non-science majors and Texas Government thru UTA; College Algebra thru UT Brownsville; and Sociology thru UT Permian Basin (in Odessa). It will be a very busy semester, but thankfully, I will have “Mr. Left-Brain” himself here to help me out with the difficult courses (Bio & Algebra). I’m still waiting to hear back from UTSA’s Financial Aid office about whether or not I will still be getting the financial aid package they’d originally offered me (over $17000!!!), so many prayers could definitely be used!

Tonight the Spurs take on Detroit in game 6 of the NBA Finals. The game is in San Antonio and the Spurs are up 3-2, so hopefully this will end the series. I’m sick of looking at Ben Wallace’s hair. :roll:

Part Two: Arrival

June 18, 2005

I am here. :sigh: I’ve got half of my things moved in, and we (read: HE) just couldn’t move anything else tonight… So we’re going to tackle the rest in the morning. As for tonight: we rented In Good Company and ordered out for dinner (me: Chinese, him: Italian), and grabbed some cigars on the way home. The day was very long, but most definitely productive.

I will be living right across the street from the BSM, and it appears that all of my neighbors are of either Indian or Middle Eastern decent… which is sort of funny. I think it will be fun. I’m really looking forward to getting the place put together and cooking my first meal there.

I don’t really feel like any of this is real just yet. I sort of feel like I’m staying in a hotel room- HA! Too bad there’s no room or maid service!

More tomorrow.

Part One

June 17, 2005

I’m half way done with my move. I just arrived here in Dallas with a Volvo-load of my stuff, and tomorrow, Brandon and I will return to San Antonio to retrieve the rest in his truck. YAY!

Oh, and as it turns out, I’ve been giving out the incorrect address. My new address is as follows:

411 S. West St. #204
Arlington, Texas 76010